I`ve had these conversations multiple times with black women who won`t “cross the color line” I can respect their reasons but I would never halt my happiness for “chocolate babies”
not sure how i feel about this.
sometimes we as people have expectations for others. we should stop it. what one does others don`t! thats what signifies our relationships. that`s why you choose one to be with for life and not multiple most of the time
We must learn to control these expectations. we are are individuals, physio-bio-social, all affect who we are. so don`t expect us to act the same
i have one best friend! two accountability partners and some great friends. but each of our relationships is different. I am a very open person but I am not stupid I don`t expect to meet any other person that could even come close to replacing those I have in my life right now.
i know that no one will replace my lodo. she is special we have a bond that no one could break and blood couldn`t make us any closer.
Also, we all are human.
we all have some kind of flaw on my greek mythology tip right now…wondering which is my tragic flaw. But our flaws affect every aspect of our life until we own up to them and accept them. Recognize someones flaws and you will see how that affects their everyday relationships with people. [slippery slope] I do sneaky things therefore I don`t trust others and therefore I can`t open up to you like the friend I say that I am.
Expect: 1. transitive verb confidently believe something: to believe with confidence, or think it likely, that an event will happen in the future
My advice only have confidence in yourself. When you find someone you feel you can have confidence in then give them a special place in your life.
“Truth is, everyone is going to hurt you; you just have to find the ones worth suffering for.”—Bob Marley